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THERAPY for ANXIETY & OCD IN GARDEN CITY, NY
Break free from the patterns of overthinking, avoidance, and fear that keep pulling you away from the life you want.
YOUR BRAIN IS ALWAYS GOING, GOING, going…AND YOU HAVE no idea HOW TO TURN IT OFF.
You’re lying awake again: replaying conversations, thinking through every possible outcome, imagining worst-case scenarios, or going back and analyzing what already did happen and wishing you’d handled things differently. Maybe you keep wondering, “What if something goes wrong?” or “What if I missed something important?” You know this kind of overthinking isn’t actually productive, but it feels like your default setting. Whether it’s worry, self-doubt, intrusive thoughts, or all of the above, your mind rarely seems to stop.
It’s not just staying in your head. You may find yourself repeatedly checking, endlessly googling, turning to ChatGPT or social media reels looking for answers, avoiding certain situations, rereading things over and over, confessing thoughts to people, or needing things to feel “just right” before you can relax. For a moment, it helps. But then the doubt comes back—and the cycle starts all over again.
And you’re not proud of how it’s affecting you either. You’re more irritable than you want to be—snapping at people you care about, shutting down, or pulling away altogether. You’re exhausted from constantly thinking, replaying, checking, or trying to get certainty before you can relax. It’s becoming harder to trust yourself, and easier to avoid the things that feel stressful, uncertain, or emotionally overwhelming. And at a certain point, it starts to feel like anxiety and OCD are making more decisions than you are.
You often find yourself thinking…
“Did I actually clean that well enough…or am I going to get someone sick?”
“Why am I still thinking about that conversation from earlier —did I say something wrong?”
“I know I already checked this, but what if I missed something?”
“I just need to be 100% sure before I can relax.”
“Why does this feel like such a big deal to me when it shouldn’t?”
“I’ll feel better once I check one more time…just to be safe.”
“Why can’t I just let this go and move on like everyone else?”
You might call it anxiety. You might wonder if it’s OCD.
Or…you just know that your mind feels out of control sometimes. What matters more than the label (and what we’ll focus on in therapy) is how much space it’s taking up—and how much it’s getting in the way of how you want to live your life.
MY APPROACH
We tend to do this work a bit like scientists—looking closely at what’s happening, gathering the data, and helping you see where things can actually shift.
When we pay attention to your anxiety more intentionally, we start to see what’s actually within your control, what isn’t, and how to respond differently. So in our work together, we'll sort through what actually needs your attention versus what anxiety keeps demanding you solve. From there, we can work on helping you step out of the exhausting mental loops that keep you stuck in fear, doubt, and overthinking. This allows you to start feeling more grounded, trust yourself more, and move through life with less anxiety running the show.
I’ll also pay attention to what you’re already doing that is working—because if you’ve made it this far, something about the way you’ve been managing is working—and we'll build from there.
Depending on what you need, some sessions are more skills-based, where I’ll introduce strategies you can use in the moment (like relaxation strategies or mindfulness).
Other times, we slow things down and take a closer look at what’s happening underneath. That can look like tracking certain thoughts or behaviors that keep happening regularly, so we can better understand the underlying pattern. The goal isn’t just awareness—it’s using that awareness to respond differently when the pattern shows up.
For OCD specifically, we may use exposure-based work (ERP), which is a more focused approach that helps you gradually face the thoughts or situations that trigger you—without relying on the usual compulsions to get relief.
Regardless of what you’re experiencing, we move at a pace that feels manageable, building confidence over time. We’re not seeking to get rid of every anxious thought, but to change your relationship to them so they don’t have the same level of control.
What would it be like to have a different relationship with anxiety and OCD?
You wouldn’t need to “figure out” every thought before you move on
Uncertainty could be there without it taking over your day
Automatically acting on the urge to check or reassure would start to decrease
Thoughts could be “just thoughts” without turning into a full spiral or carrying some deeper meaning about your character
Simple decisions wouldn’t feel so heavy
Trust and confidence in yourself becomes the norm—no more second-guessing
Instead of being stuck in your head, you actually feel present in your life and relationships
A full, meaningful life doesn’t require perfection or 100% certainty in every situation. Let’s start building yours—without waiting for either.
Questions?
FAQs
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Not necessarily, and that’s not really the goal here. Anxiety is a normal human experience, and in some ways, it can even be helpful! What we’re working toward is helping it feel more manageable, so it’s not running your life, taking up as much space, or keeping you stuck in ways that don’t feel good.
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OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) involves a pattern of intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions). The thoughts can feel distressing, unwanted, or hard to let go of, and the behaviors—like checking, reassurance-seeking, googling, or mentally reviewing things—are usually attempts to reduce anxiety, prevent something bad from happening, or feel more certain. While they may bring temporary relief, they tend to reinforce the cycle over time.
OCD often overlaps with anxiety, and it’s common to experience both. One difference is that OCD tends to involve repetitive loops that feel especially sticky, urgent, or difficult to disengage from—even when part of you recognizes the fear may not fully make sense.
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A lot of people do, especially when it comes to intrusive or “out of character” thoughts. It can feel uncomfortable or even scary to say them out loud. This is a space where you can talk about them openly, without being judged, shamed, or needing to filter yourself.
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It can feel uncomfortable at first to do things differently, especially if you’re used to avoiding or controlling the anxiety. But we’ll go at a pace that feels manageable. Over time, as you build your ability to handle those feelings, anxiety usually becomes less intense and less controlling—not more.
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I have extensive experience with treating anxiety in a range of forms—general overthinking, racing thoughts, difficulty managing stress, social anxiety—as well as more specific patterns like OCD, where thoughts feel intrusive and hard to let go of, and there’s a strong urge to check, reassure, or “figure things out.”
My approach is grounded in evidence-based work, including cognitive and behavioral strategies, and for OCD specifically, exposure and response prevention therapy (ERP). That said, I don’t take a rigid or one-size-fits-all approach. We use these tools in a way that actually fits you, your life, and what you’re dealing with day to day.
A big part of my work is helping clients understand the patterns within their anxiety—what’s happening, what’s keeping it going, and where we can intervene in a way that leads to real change, not just temporary relief.
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That’s really common. Most people come in feeling unsure or even a little on edge about starting (especially when their mind constantly pushes them to analyze, prepare, or double-check every little thing just to feel okay). The first few sessions are less about diving into everything all at once and more about getting a sense of what’s going on. We’ll talk through what’s been coming up for you, what’s been feeling hard, and start to identify some of the patterns at play. You don’t need to have it all figured out or know exactly where to start—that’s part of what we’ll do together.
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ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) is a type of therapy used specifically for OCD. It involves gradually facing the thoughts, situations, or triggers that create anxiety (the exposure), while resisting the urge to do the behaviors that usually bring relief—like checking, seeking reassurance, or mentally trying to “figure it out” (the response prevention).
It can help you build tolerance for the anxiety and learn, over time, that you don’t need to rely on those patterns to feel okay. As that happens, the thoughts tend to feel less intense and less controlling.